Live Small

Interesting advice I was given and goes against every grain in my body. I'm faced with a situation. I want to retaliate. I won't to ensure that I take pre-emptive strikes and put an end to this. I want to go out and deal with this full force and not sit back and "take" it.

And yet, Live Small. What do I mean by that? Well for me right now, with this situation, it means living under the radar. To take a stance that says, do what you want, I am better than that, and all your feeble attempts mean nothing. Why should I do this? Well I am better than that and the more I engage in this, the more validity I give it.

So I sit at a crux. I want to fight, I want to ensure that this gets dealt with swiftly and surely and I squash it like a bug BUT by fighting this as if it is a threat, gives the picture that I feel it is a threat and there is validity to it.

The more I engage in all this, the  more power it has. The more I fight it, the more threat it has. Live Small. Ignore it and it will go away. Dismiss it, rise above it and give nothing to give validity to it. Live Small.

In this instance, excellent advice. Now to work at the ensuing emotional eruption that it caused and not let it tag into my vulnerability. Rise above it, recognize it as petty games from a childish immature person. Live Small and it will go away. And surround myself with the truth of who I am: a Beautiful, Professional woman who knows what she wants in life and is finding and will find success in this world.

Why? Because...........

"I ROCK!!!!!"................(guitar hero told me so...... ;-P )